Have you ever been out and came across someone that made you wonder... "does she/he own a mirror?" Or, conclude that the person you're watching has not one true friend?
Well I have, and experiencing such assaults on my unassuming eyes has prompted me to discuss a few of the things that can render your look an #EpicFail!
Understanding that your look starts with your underwear will spare so many from falling victim to this crime. How do you build something spectacular without the proper foundation? Duh.... you can't. So keep the following in mind when laying the foundation for your look:
- Choose the right panty. Visible pantylines and waistbands are tres passe. It looks terrible and nobody wants to see them. Thongs are a good choice for those of you who can tolerate them. I prefer a seamless low-rise brief with the "stay put" banding that prevents riding. I find Target's Gilligan O'Malley brand both affordable and effective.
- Choose the right bra. This should be common sense. If your outfit calls for a strapless, racer-back, or deep plunge bra then that's what you should wear. If you're worried about going strapless (like me), or have experience problems before try an invisible strap, they're usually sold in packages of 3 in the same department.
- Choose the right color. Contrary to what most women think matching your underwear to your outfit is not always the best option. When wearing light colors (especially white) your underwear should be dark. Black, navy, charcoal, or deep brown. Why? Simple, IT DOESN'T SHOW! Generally matching/coordinating printed under garments work best with opaque wardrobe choices, or looks that call for that "peek-a-boo" effect.
- Choose the right size! There is not a more disturbing sight than a woman in underwear that is too small. Heaven forbid it be under an outfit that is also too small.
- Last but not least know when a good foundation garment is necessary, and then choose the right one for the job!
The next component that can quickly turn a thumbs-up to a thumbs down is shoes. Ladies open-toed and/or slingback shoes allow us a little leeway, but please understand that it is not a license to buy a shoe that simply doesn't fit. Too often am I seeing women on the street with either their toes or heels literally hanging off of the shoe. Just stop the madness please!
Which moves us to the next logical thing, jewelry and accessories. Choose carefully when picking these items. You want to compliment your look, not overwhelm, underwhelm, or otherwise detract from it. Notice I said "your look" and not "your outfit". Your accessories are the components that helps to bring your entire look together. A bad decision here can ruin the whole effect.
The same is true for hair and makeup. Your makeup should compliment your features and skin tone. Coordinate with your outfit, and be appropriate for your age and/or environment.
Hair is probably the most important and overlooked attribute of a great look. The wrong hair can ruin even the best outfit.
When creating your look of the day simply start with an idea. You don't have to get married to any one selection. For me things rarely work out the way I see it in my minds eye on the first try.
This top isn't working with that bottom. This bra looks awful under this top. "Which shoes goes best?" These earrings are too much! So on and so on.... So I keep trying until everything is right.
When all else fails I got two words for you... ASK SOMEBODY! Then impress upon them that you need honest feedback. In that same spirit, BE HONEST with your friends/family when they miss the mark.
Together we can rid the world of these fashion faux pas one styling violation at a time.
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