Thursday, February 28, 2013

Spring Ahead!



Winter isn’t quite ready to pass the baton, but you are ready put your spring wardrobe into play.

With a little imagination you can jumpstart next season and start wearing your spring trends today!

This look features a floral printed jean (allyfashion.com) and bright citrus toned top, matched with a lightweight suede jacket in light grey and matching platform pumps. A reptile printed tote with hints of orange throughout (justfab.com), and simple chic handmade jewelry from Provocative Expression add the perfect finishing touches.

Visit me at
www.ProvocativExpression.com for handmade jewelry to add to your spring wardrobe.

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Avoiding an #EpicFail!

Have you ever been out and came across someone that made you wonder... "does she/he own a mirror?" Or, conclude that the person you're watching has not one true friend?
 
Well I have, and experiencing such assaults on my unassuming eyes has prompted me to discuss a few of the things that can render your look an #EpicFail!
 
Understanding that your look starts with your underwear will spare so many from falling victim to this crime. How do you build something spectacular without the proper foundation? Duh.... you can't. So keep the following in mind when laying the foundation for your look:
 
  •  Choose the right panty.  Visible pantylines and waistbands are tres passe. It looks terrible and nobody wants to see them. Thongs are a good choice for those of you who can tolerate them. I prefer a seamless low-rise brief with the "stay put" banding that prevents riding. I find Target's Gilligan O'Malley brand both affordable and effective.
  • Choose the right bra. This should be common sense. If your outfit calls for a strapless, racer-back,  or deep plunge bra then that's what you should wear. If you're worried about going strapless (like me), or have experience problems before try an invisible strap, they're usually sold in packages of 3 in the same department.
  • Choose the right color. Contrary to what most women think matching your underwear to your outfit is not always the best option. When wearing light colors (especially white) your underwear should be dark. Black, navy, charcoal, or deep brown. Why? Simple, IT DOESN'T SHOW! Generally matching/coordinating printed under garments work best with opaque wardrobe choices, or looks that call for that "peek-a-boo" effect.
  • Choose the right size! There is not a more disturbing sight than a woman in underwear that is too small. Heaven forbid it be under an outfit that is also too small.
  • Last but not least know when a good foundation garment is necessary, and then choose the right one for the job!
The next component that can quickly turn a thumbs-up to a thumbs down is shoes. Ladies open-toed and/or slingback shoes allow us a little leeway, but please understand that it is not a license to buy a shoe that simply doesn't fit. Too often am I seeing women on the street with either their toes or heels literally hanging off of the shoe. Just stop the madness please!
 
Which moves us to the next logical thing, jewelry and accessories. Choose carefully when picking these items. You want to compliment your look, not overwhelm, underwhelm, or otherwise detract from it. Notice I said "your look" and not "your outfit". Your accessories are the components that helps to bring your entire look together. A bad decision here can ruin the whole effect.
 
The same is true for hair and makeup. Your makeup should compliment your features and skin tone. Coordinate with your outfit, and be appropriate for your age and/or environment.
 
Hair is probably the most important and overlooked attribute of a great look. The wrong hair can ruin even the best outfit.
 
When creating your look of the day simply start with an idea. You don't have to get married to any one selection. For me things rarely work out the way I see it in my minds eye on the first try.
 
This top isn't working with that bottom. This bra looks awful under this top. "Which shoes goes best?" These earrings are too much! So on and so on.... So I keep trying until everything is right.
 
When all else fails I got two words for you... ASK SOMEBODY! Then impress upon them that you need honest feedback. In that same spirit, BE HONEST with your friends/family when they miss the mark.
 
Together we can rid the world of these fashion faux pas one styling violation at a time. 
 
 

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Style Watch! The Gladiator Boot


Gladiator sandals have come and gone several times over on the fashionscape. Making it's most recent return to mainstream fashion just a few short years ago.
 
 
Gladiator boots from Versace runway SS 2013
Yeah I know what you're thinking... What's new about the gladiator?
 
  
It's been around for the last few summer seasons.

Well, I'll tell you what's new.
 
 
The gladiator is no longer just a sandal, it has evolved into a style that can grace other seasons as the weather permits.
 
 
 
Behold... The Gladiator
 
Boot!
 
Gladiator boots from Alexander Wang runway SS 2013
 
 
 
 
You like?
 
 
Part boot, part sandal, all together sexy....
 
Designers like Alexander Wang and Salvatore Ferragamo have represented this trend in their spring 2013 lines.
 
   
 
While the evolution of the gladiator sandal is trending for most, true style connoisseurs like myself have been ahead way of this curve... I bought this pair of Michael Antonio gladiator inspired ankle boots roughly 3 summers ago from a shop that was going out of business. Someone always wants to either snatch em off my feet, or know where I got them.
 
Guess it pays to have a knack for style as well as an eye for fashion... huh?
 
 
  
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Here I am... Rocking my boots while partaking in my favorite past time, Karaoke!
 
Visit my online boutique www.ProvocativExpression.com today for handmade jewelry to compliment your signature look.

Monday, February 25, 2013

Recessionista Files.....

So here we are again with another tale of great style finds at a deal so good I can't help but tell the world.

Last time I told you about an awesome pair of Oxford Stiletto's I copped from ShoeDazzle at the end of last year. Today I'm gonna tell you about my latest ShoeDazzle buys.

The site has gone under a few changes since last year. It has a new look, new head stylist, and new "sale" model.

Before BOGO's and other sales events weren't generally accessible. I found this out one day by looking through some items that I'd "favorited". Many of those selections were part of a BOGO sale that I otherwise wouldn't have know about. I contacted ShoeDazzle and complained, and they later provided me with the link to shop that sale. Any who, that is no longer the case. The "Sale" tab is there for all to see and shop if they so choose.


So last month I found myself once again on the ShoeDazzle site (after I temporarily suspended myself from shopping), on the last day of an additional 25% off sale. After browsing for a while I decided to suspend my suspension and take advantage of some of these deals.


Den - A reptile print, off shoulder, ruffled maxi dress.

Sheer with a built-in lining, and screams "resort"!

I matched it with metallic wedges, and bold turquoise statement jewelry to give it that complete resort feel. 

 




Alcove - An airy and colorful hi-low dress with detachable slip.


I paired this little beauty with a pair of mid-calf western boots also found at ShoeDazzle (Anca). However, there are many possibilities for this cute little dress.
 













Danna - Oh I wanted these since I first saw them, but it just never seemed to go on sale. Until now! Like I said before I LOVE SHOES!!!!! Especially cute, interesting, eye catching shoes, and these absolutely fit that bill. I'm so excited to see what outfits I come up with built around these babies....





How much did all this cost? I thought you might ask.....







 I'm gonna be so cute this spring/summer....

Friday, February 22, 2013

Men's Style... Refined Rebel



I’ve been working hard in my virtual “Build A Boo” workshop putting together looks for my virtual Boo….

I imagine my “Mr. Right” as a handsome, rugged, motorcycle riding, but always on-trend hunk of man-candy.


It’s date night and we’re meeting for dinner and drinks at our favorite little pizza parlor, and maybe a little karaoke fun afterward.

Every girl wants him, and every guy wants to be him… Yep! That’s my Boo!


Visit my website www.ProvocativExpression.com for the handmade jewelry featured in this set.

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Spring 2013 Color Trends

What wonders does Spring 2013 hold? Lots!

Pantone has released it Spring 2013 Color Report, and Fashion mags across the board have published spring trend picks. All in all we have lots to get us started with our Spring Wardrobes...

 


According to Pantone Greens are the prevalent colors this spring including 3 shades in its 2013 color report.

From the brilliantly vibrant to the subtle and subdued green is expressive of what spring represents; nature, life, freshness, harmony, growth and well being.
 
Emerald, the most vibrant of the three leads the pack and is the focus of many creative professionals from apparel and accessories to makeup and jewelry. Also featured are Grayed Jade; a more subtle shade that promotes balance and relaxation, and Tender Shoots; a yellowish green that is energetic and playful.
 
Last season Tangerine ruled the runways, this season citrus tones are still represented with colors like Nectarine and Lemon Zest.
 
Other colors of the season include Linen, Poppy Red, African Violet, Dusk and Monaco Blue's.
 
 
 
 
Both Elle and Glamour have highlighted bold black and white geometric prints as hot this spring. Stripes, Blocks and Hounds Tooth are just a few of what to expect.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Leather is back. Yes, I said leather.... To many it may seem more like a fall fashion staple, but the fashion Gods say that it will reign this spring in rich tones and minimalistic shapes. I could definitely get behind the trend as an early spring choice when the weather is mild but still cool, but as the temps climb I would consider more comfort appropriate choices that won't sacrifice your savvy style sense. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Nobody knows better than me the discomfort that goes along with wearing that awesome looking little sequined ditty in your style arsenal.
 
Looks good, but itches like crazy! Lets not even get started on the messy glitter...
 
Go for an elegant beaded piece instead. It can be a headache to clean, and you may run the risk of losing a few here and there, but you'll look great! I promise....
 
 
One trend that I am personally excited about is the return of the sexy short suit! Not the "Daisy Duke" ensembles that overrun racks in the malls, but true grown woman sexy short suits... A tailored short and matching cropped blazer waiting to be styled however you like it best. As a fun day look, a sexy night look, or even a daring formal look. 
 
Michael Kors, Tory Burch, Helmut Lang
 
Whatever you choose to stock your spring wardrobe with just remember that it's all about personal expression. So be as daring and creative as you please when mixing and matching this season. 
 
Oh yeah and visit my own website www.ProvocativExpression.com for handmade jewelry to add to your spring style arsenal as well!

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Now that's an Idea...


Diet fads are ever present. They come and go. They are hailed as the best thing since sliced bread, just to be proven as a grand hoax somewhere down the line. All and all the general consensus is that even if a diet is effective, it is only effective as long as you are on it. Once you reach your goal and you do away with it, you regain your weight and a little extra.
 
The latest diet craze is Fasting. Fasting is defined as: abstaining  voluntarily from consumption of all (or some) foods and/or drinks for a determined period of time. Fasting as I know it, has always been in observance of a religious practice, but is now being used as a form of dieting.
 
There's an article in the February issue of Elle that outlines such a diet, it is called Alternate Day Fasting (ADF). Could this be the diet that  is sustainable in the long term? The type of diet that inherently develops into a healthier lifestyle? You be the judge. Below is the Elle article in its entirety.... Happy reading!
 
 
halftime diet
HALFTIME DIET

Half the pain of fasting, all of the benefits? Allison P. Davis tries Alternate Day Fasting, the one yo-yo diet that might actually be good for us
             
BY Allison P. Davis  January 21, 2013

Call it a problem with authority, but being told I can’t eat something—even if it’s a self-imposed law—brings out my inner brat. Any decision I make to cut back instantly activates my instinct to gorge. I thought Weight Watchers’ built-in “cheat” points might be the answer, but I blew my first week’s allowance by Monday. I gave the “juice-fast till dinner” a shot—all the rage in Manhattan—and successfully detoxed all day, then went calorie crazy at night. At one point, I even devised my own plan, the “little bit” diet, which allowed me to indulge in tiny portions of whatever I wanted. But who can stop at one-eighth of a cheesesteak?

So fasting, the unlikely sounding fad diet du jour, seemed a no-way, no-how proposition—despite a glut of studies that has proven fasting doesn’t just help you lose weight, it also improves metabolism, lowers cholesterol, reduces the risk of cancer and heart disease, and slows the cognitive decline associated with Parkinson’s disease. It may even help us live longer by reducing levels of IGF-1, the growth hormone responsible for aging.

For a decade or so, scientists have been on a race to discover the most humane way to fast—the version that achieves maximum payoff with minimum misery. Alternate-day fasting (ADF), a sort of 50-50 approach, first came to light in a 2005 paper in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition that proved that fasting even half the time could have serious benefits. Four years later, Krista Varady, PhD, a professor of nutrition at University of Illinois at Chicago, published a study of a somewhat more lenient ADF: Overweight subjects consumed an average diet (2,000 calories for women; 2,500 for men) on “feed” days, alternating with fast days during which they were allowed to eat 20 to 25 percent of that amount, in the form of a single low-fat meal. Bingo: Over eight weeks, the participants dropped 6 to 8 percent of their body weight.

Could there be an even less brutal version? On “Eat, Fast and Live Longer,” an episode of the BBC science program Horizon that aired last year, host Michael Mosley landed upon the “5:2 diet”: He ate normally five days a week, consumed 600 calories or fewer on the remaining two—and lost 14 pounds in six weeks. The Salk Institute for Biological Studies in San Diego tested a night-and-day variation: One group of mice was given 24-7 access to food, while another fed during the first eight hours of the day, then fasted from 5 P.M. to 9 A.M. Though both groups consumed the same amount, the nighttime fasters ended up thinner and healthier than those who ate around the clock.

Still, my interest was not piqued until Varady published a follow-up ADF study. This time, 17 subjects stuck to the original low-fat ADF diet, while 15 tried something new: a high-fat version. Instead of, say, Lean Cuisine lasagna, they ate a small portion of the real thing. Published last August in the journal Metabolism, the results were startling. Over eight weeks, both groups lost the same amount of weight—on average, 5.8 percent of their body mass. Those on the high-fat version were still eating less than usual on fast days, creating a calorie deficit. And because they were eating full-fat, they weren’t desperate to binge later. “We noticed some sort of satiety response,” says Varady. “The body begins to recognize when it’s really full.”

On the first day of my alternate-day fast, I woke to an emotional gut punch. No, I would not get to eat the warm, crusty everything bagel with cream cheese I’d craved through the night. I’d get one measly meal, and I wouldn’t even get that for four more hours. This fast, I thought, is not going to last.

Yet somehow it did. For four weeks, I split my days (and my social calendar) between 2,000-calorie feed days and 400- to 500-calorie “fast” days, usually consisting of a single lunchtime meal: soup or half a sandwich, a piece of fruit, and a cookie.

Nothing about fasting was easy. I was cranky, often tired. But on days when I couldn’t eat, it was a comfort just to know that at the stroke of midnight I could have whatever I wanted again. And it was freeing to stop counting calories and making trade-offs. I wasn’t swapping points or keeping a diary; I was simply eating.

But after a particularly horrendous feed-day brunch involving mimosas, a fried chicken sandwich, and a side of bacon, I phoned Varady’s colleague, PhD candidate Monica Klempel.

“This can’t be a diet!” I shrieked.

“Well, it sounds like you’re doing it right,” Klempel said. Fasting, she explained, plays a mind game of sorts: Most subjects in both of Varady’s ADF studies tended to think they were consuming more calories on feed days than they really were. Though that fried chicken sandwich had seemed unforgivably decadent, I’d eaten only half of it. This was occurring on most feed days: Once I got past initial cravings, the natural desire for fruits and vegetables took over. At the office cafeteria, I’d steer toward the sushi bar rather than the grill. And the scale crept down: I lost a pound and a half the first week; seven by the end of a month.

Still, I was also displaying the patterns of a binge eater, destroying a plate of nachos one day, struggling through deprivation the next. What about…balance? Dietician Carol Brunzell, RD, a representative of the American Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, shares my skepticism. “Any kind of calorie deficit will result in losing weight,” Brunzell says. “But the million-dollar question is, What are you learning? How can you maintain this? I would suspect, and I hate to say this, you’ll just put the weight back on.”

But Varady, who is currently conducting the first yearlong study on the long-term sustainability of ADF, argues that people can—and do—stay on the diet long-term, and that the high-fat version makes it more feasible. “It’s really only having to diet half the time,” she says. “People can really stick to that.”

Monday, February 18, 2013

Recessionista Files.....

By now it's no secret that I LOVE snagging a deal! The one thing I could possibly love more is SHOES! The only thing that can top my love for shoes or a bargain is snagging a great deal on a great pair of shoes!
 
 
I joined Shoedazzle.com during the summer of 2012. I was looking for just the right pair of shoes to wear with this great summer dress I got for a steal at JCP. I didn't find that magical pair but I liked what I saw enough to keep looking. Soon I was a repeat customer, my first purchase was 50% off and every purchase after seemed to come with some kind of discount or perk.
 
By participating in surveys and giving feedback I earned store credits. One day I got an email that warned my credit (which I believed to be $10) would expire soon. I logged in to find that my $10 credit was actually a $25 credit (wow!) & so I got to shopping!
 
 
 
 
That's when I came across these babies.....
 
Naara from ShoeDazzle.com.
 
A super sexy, studded menswear inspired wingtip oxford, with tasseled laces, a 1.25" platform and 5.5" heel.
 


At 40% off regular price, and after my $25 credit the grand total for these sexy oxfords was only $3.92! Which means that I really only paid for shipping & even that was discounted since standard shipping is $4.95.
 
 
 
 
MAJOR SCORE!!!!!! Sexy, stylish, on-trend & definitely on budget!
 
If you like this shoe as much as I do you may be able to still snag a pair. At $20.97 these shoes are still a great deal, but they're only available in a few sizes.
 
They run a little big so all may not be lost if they don't have your regular size. I ordered size 8 so I could wear them with socks during these cold weather months, and even with socks they're still at least a 1/2 size too big. (Easily fixable with a cushioned in-sole and heel pad)
 
So head on over & snag your deal. BUT be warned that some discount items are FINAL SALE purchases.
 
Who says Champagne taste with Kool-Aid money is a bad thing?
 
 
Styling suggestion...
 
 
 
Visit www.ProvocativExpression.com today for Handmade Designer Jewelry to compliment your signature style!
 
 


Saturday, February 9, 2013

Channel your Inner Zooey....






Channel your inner Zooey Deschanel with this vintage inspired look...

A Vintage feel is given contemporary flare with handmade jewelry from Provocative Expression, partnered with shoes and handbag (both $39.95) from JustFab.com

The main pieces in this look (blue chiffon dress & white cardigan) are demure and unassuming. But when you add T-strap patent leather peep-toe pumps & an eye catching structured purse, topped off with glamorous handmade jewelry you get new millennium WOW!

It's feminine, sexy, stylish, on-trend and all of that...
 

Featured Jewelry from Provocative Expression:  

Vixen Crystal Dangle Earrings $25

Diana Cuff Bracelet ~ $25

Ashley Glass Bead Necklace ~ $18


Visit www.ProvocativExpression.com today for handmade jewelry to compliment your signature look

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Quick Beauty Fix! ~ Dry Skin

 
 
Although winter has been fairly mild here in my sweet home Chicago, for me it's still prime time for dry skin worries. My main trouble spots are my elbows & legs. In the past I tried all kinds of products that are supposed to help remedy the problem but none (that I could afford) consistently lived up to the hype.
 
Only after completing nail technology training and working for a little while as a nail technician (a lil tidbit you didn't know about me) I learned how to use simple and inexpensive household items to achieve real results. 

 For my ashy elbows I used plain ol' petroleum jelly or as most of us know it "Vaseline"! Applying just after bathing/showering, and at bedtime. I learned that most lotions contain water and ultimately evaporate which can leave skin dry and ashy. 


 Vaseline is an oil based emollient that helps to lubricate and protect skin, making it appear smoother and softer to the touch. I also use Vaseline on my lips, hands and feet to keep them all kissably soft. (yes I said all of them! Lol)
 
*nail tech tip: To keep soft feet (assuming that you slough your heels with pumice in the bath or get routine pedicures), at bedtime apply Vaseline liberally and put on a pair of white 100% cotton socks. This allows the Vaseline and your body heat to work together while you sleep to repair and soften rough heels*
 
One other thing Vaseline is good for is removing eye makeup. However I would be careful not to over use it on the face. It'll give your skin a nice shine, right before the potential breakout you'll experience from the clogged pores!
 
 
For my scaly legs and I add olive oil from my kitchen cupboard to my bottle of lotion. I personally use Palmer's Cocoa Butter lotion. After I add the oil, I simply shake the bottle vigorously to mix it & that's it! I read this tip in one of my nail tech trade mags & tried it & it worked wonders on my legs, & does an overall wonderful job as a general body lotion. 
 
 
So there you have it.... my two cents on dry skin relief tips. I hope they work out for you as well as they have for me.

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Recessionista Files

This is actually a re-post from my Tumblr blog. I'm an avid bargain shopper & a sucker for a real deal. This post chronicles a chance Target shopping trip last summer. Enjoy!
 
 
 
Recessionista Files…. What $250 will buy
 
 
After grilling, eating & just enjoying a day with the family this Memorial Day I decided to do a little shopping. Really I was going to pick up a few things I’d seen in the sales ad & ended up with so much more than I bargained for.
 
 
After carefully sifting through the clearance racks I literally ditched the ad items. Here are pictures of MOST of what I got for my $250. Everything you see came from the clearance racks with the exception of two items.
 
What you don’t see in these pics is one pair of Converse OneStar leather oxfords, 1 embroidered BoHo style top, and 2 summer dresses I bought for my older daughters (1 each).
 
The finds that I am most proud of are the 2 Kimono Maxi dresses which were only $5.56 each! Items marked down simply because they were online purchases returned in-store.

 All and all I scored 4 dresses, 4pair of shorts, 4 tees, 1 swimsuit, & 1 pair of sandals for my 8yr old.



 For myself I got 7 dresses (incl the maxi dresses & 1 not shown), 1 top, 1 pair of denim Capri’s, & one pair of awesome wedges. Lets not forget about the other items listed above that are also not shown.... (one pair of Converse OneStar leather oxfords, 1 embroidered BoHo style top, and 2 addtl summer dresses)
  
 
 
 
 
 
Shopping on a budget can be so rewarding when you know how to get the most bang for your buck!
 
 
Visit my online boutique ProvocativExpression.com for handmade jewelry to enhace your personal style!
 
 
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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Out & About




Looking fabulous while we tackle our all consuming daily "to do" lists is a must for the true style connoisseur, even during these cold winter months.

Traditionally style and warmth were not players on the same team, but fashion has come a long way and achieving both objectives in one look is totally obtainable.

Above I've taken a black flocked skinny jean (Mossimo Supply Co) and partnered them with a ruffle bottom military inspired wool coat (udobuy.com), ruffled mustard scarf (by the Creek), studded oxford stiletto's (shoedazzle.com), handbag (justfab.com), and handmade jewelry by Provocative Expression.

You can add to this a cozy long sleeve tee, layer a tank/cami under a crisp button down, or even a turtleneck to complete the outfit.

The end result is a stylish winter look unlikely to end up featured on any "worst" list...


Visit www.ProvocativExpression.com today for handmade designer jewelry to compliment your signature look.

Monday, February 4, 2013

Wardrobe Treasures..... From the Grocery Store?!


Me in my $20 Leather Jacket. Pic taken in 02'
I like a deal as much as anybody but there are somethings that I’m just not willing to comprimise on. For instance when grocery shopping I just won’t buy generic brand cereal, cheese, mayo or kool-aid. However, when clothes shopping I’ll buy whatever I like, wherever I find it, as long as it’s at a price I’m willing to pay.

About 12 years ago I was grocery shopping in Aldi (yes, I said Aldi) and I happened upon a black genuine leather jacket marked down to $19.99. I examined it closely & there were no rips, scratches, stains, or damage otherwise.
 
My 1st thought was “who buys clothes form Aldi?”. Then “It’s gotta be cheap & flimsy if it’s in here”. Lastly “well if I saw this anywhere else for $20 I’d probably buy it”.
 
So I did, buy it that is. Not only did I get compliment after compliment on the jacket and no one believed where I got it from, I still have the jacket to this day. Of course I can’t fit any more but my daughter can.

 
That was one of my 1st & most important lessons in developing my personal style. It doesn’t matter where you find it, or whose name is on the tag. If it’s a well made quality item that fits you, your personal style profile and your budget GET IT!
 
9 out of 10 times no one will know where it came from, nor will they care if you rock it right. Those who will know, know only because they too have been to that shop & probably bought (or considered buying) the same piece.
 
So revel is your style treasures found in unorthodox places. It’s one of the best things that sets us trend-setters apart from mainstream trend-chasers

Friday, February 1, 2013

What is Your Personal Style?

 Personal style is defined as: A particular, distinctive, or characteristic mode or form of construction or execution in any expression of art or work. This is easily relatable to fashion and dress. Consider yourself your canvas & your “look” as your artwork. Since art is relative there really is no right or wrong way but you have to admit that everything is not pleasing to look at. Nor is it the best representaion of our very best personal attributes.
 
 
 
1. Know Thy Self - The very 1st step to defining your personal style is to honestly be in touch with who YOU are, and what image you want to present to the world. Are you the haute fashion type, or do you favor the look of effortless style? Are you wired more toward being on-trend, being comfortable, or a little of both? Examine some basic attributes about yourself with honesty such as lifestyle (or desired lifestyle), age, and/or career and you’re on your way.

2. Know What You Want - What are your style goals? Maybe you want to depart from your look of yester-year. You know that look that was all the rage back in 2002 but just doesn’t work for you anymore. Maybe you want to be taken more seriously on the dating-scape. Maybe your look is quite “stuffy” and you wanna loosen up a bit.
Decide what you want your personal look to accomplish and research looks that represent that. Fashion and style resources are literally everywhere these days. You can’t turn on your TV, laptop, tablet, or smartphone without being slapped with some form of fashion news/commentary!

3. Shop With Purpose - This step pulls double duty, not only can it help develop your personal style, it is also one of the most valuable style tips you ever get. While shopping look for things that accentuate your positives and camouflages your not so positives. Trust me your new look will be a total bust if your new wardrobe contains pieces that are ill-fitting.
If you’ve got killer gams (legs) show em’ off. Nice chi-chi’s… tastefully highlight them. A glutimus beautimus don’t diminish it by stuffing it into too-tight bottoms, or hiding under baggy-saggy ones either. Garments and fabrics that contain spandex are the best bet for curvy figures. BUT PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT SPANDEX ALONE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!

4. A Little Fashion Literacy… - Goes a long way! You don’t have to be a fashion expert but you should know credible designers from which to draw inspiration. Knowing a little about fabrics and how they behave/fit is at the top of the literacy bullet points as well. Also, know the difference between fashion categories. While it’s cool to draw inspiraton from haute couture & editorial looks, it wouldn’t be very practical to rock such looks “as-is” and on a daily basis. Scale these grand looks down to the “ready-to-wear” level for a more practical approach.

5. Take a Style Inventory - Before you run to the mall to outfit your personal style, inventory what’s already in your closet. Or if you’re like me what’s in your closet, your storage totes, and your space bags!
If what you find doesn’t fit you anymore, or doesn’t fit into what you’re trying to accomplish GET RID OF IT! The “mom jeans”, the shoulder pads, the 90’s bulk, the stirrup pants…. time to go! Worn out, will never wear again, don’t understand why you ever bought it… evict it! Vintage is permissable, flat out of style….. Nope. If you don’t know what vintage is google it & you’ll get the idea.

6. Update Not Re-do - Now that you’ve weeded out the wardrobe undesirables, it’s time to add some new hottness. If you read my last blog post (I Am a Recessionista) then you already know what your wardrobe essentials are. If you haven’t read it, what are you waiting for!
If you don’t already have the essential pieces then this is your first assignment.
Next, think about accessories that can transform what you already have. You’d be surprised at how a new pair of shoes, a different belt, a jacket and/or sweater, or even jewelry can take an old piece & flip it fashion forward in an instant.
Also try mixing & matching pieces. Just because you bought them together doesn’t mean that you have to always wear them together. Experiment with colors, textures, and patterns to come up with something new.
Probably the most overlooked style enhancers are your hair & make-up. A new do & a fresh face can put “hey” in “hey now” when developing a new look.

7. Please Yourself! - Last but certainly not least, DO YOU! Wasn’t that the point of this whole excercise? To find and develop YOUR personal style? It doesn’t matter what I say, what any of the fashion pundits say, or what your friends & family say… If you’re not comfortable and/or satisfied then you haven’t accomplished YOUR personal style. Go back to the beginning and this time HONESTLY assess who you are and what you want accomplish with your look.
On the other hand if you can’t be any more pleased with the outcome then CONGRATULATIONS! Your journey to personal style has been a wild success. BUT don’t get married to this stage of your style. Things inevitably change as we move through life and our personal styles should be among those things. Not necessarily dramatic, but definitely appropriate for who we are in our lives at that moment.

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